{"id":14901,"date":"2026-05-31T10:26:59","date_gmt":"2026-05-31T04:56:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/banitoday.com\/delhi-shocker-delivery-executive-delivers-vibrator-tells-woman-why-this-use-me-instead-delhi-news\/"},"modified":"2026-05-31T10:26:59","modified_gmt":"2026-05-31T04:56:59","slug":"delhi-shocker-delivery-executive-delivers-vibrator-tells-woman-why-this-use-me-instead-delhi-news","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/banitoday.com\/hi\/delhi-shocker-delivery-executive-delivers-vibrator-tells-woman-why-this-use-me-instead-delhi-news\/","title":{"rendered":"Delhi shocker: Delivery executive delivers vibrator, tells woman, \u2018Why this? Use me instead\u2019 | Delhi News"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"e9jwa\">\n<div class=\"vdo_embedd\">\n<div class=\"GfdvZ\">\n<section class=\"_bIDB  clearfix id-r-component leadmedia undefined undefined  E9tg9 \" style=\"top:0px\">\n<div class=\"_bIDB\" data-ua-type=\"1\" onclick=\"stpPgtnAndPrvntDefault(event)\">\n<div class=\"ypVvZ\">\n<div class=\"WGttI\"><img src=\"https:\/\/static.toiimg.com\/thumb\/msid-131418543,imgsize-35946,width-400,height-225,resizemode-72\/-.jpg\" alt=\"Delhi shocker: Delivery executive delivers vibrator, tells woman, \u2018Why this? Use me instead\u2019\" title=\"Image Used For Representational Purpose Only\" decoding=\"async\" fetchpriority=\"high\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"Ta7d_ img_cptn\"><span title=\"Image Used For Representational Purpose Only\">Image Used For Representational Purpose Only<\/span><\/div>\n<\/section>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>NEW DELHI: When Aditi took the personal massager she had ordered out of the Blinkit bag, the package was unsealed. \u201cAs is the drill, I took photos and uploaded them to the app to request a return.<!-- --> A delivery driver arrived to pick it up,\u201d the 36-year-old Delhi resident says. She wasn\u2019t prepared for what happened next.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"3\"\/>\u201cHe took the massager out of the box, sniffed it and gave me a sly smile. He then asked me if I wanted a replacement,\u201d she says. \u201cI was disgusted and terrified. I told him to leave.\u201d<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"5\"\/>But Aditi couldn\u2019t quite slam the door shut on last year\u2019s episode. Her private order became an \u2018I know what you bought last summer\u2019 secret the rider carried with him, one that was conveyed to her through smirks the few other times their paths crossed \u2013 she lives in the same neighbourhood, he too still works there.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"9\"\/>Last week, a Faridabad based media strategist\u2019s recounting of a chilling encounter with a rider who delivered a vibrator she ordered showed neither her nor Aditi\u2019s experience were isolated ones and that delivery apps have serious questions to answer on how they handle customer privacy.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"11\"\/>Pooja Joshi had ordered the product from Blinkit\u2019s sexual wellness section. The rider didn\u2019t keep the package and leave. He asked her what she bought. According to Pooja, when she told him to mind his own business, he left. Seconds later, her phone rang. The rider was calling again. When she answered, he allegedly told her, \u201cWhy are you using a vibrator? Use me instead.\u201d<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"15\"\/>Wondering how he could make the call to her even after the delivery, Pooja said it was possible the man had not officially marked the delivery as \u2018completed\u2019 to retain access to her phone number, just so he could start a conversation. <!-- -->\u201cI was so scared,\u201d she told TOI . \u201cThis stranger who told me I should have sex with him knew exactly where I lived.\u201d<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"19\"\/>After Pooja filed a complaint with Blinkit, the company informed her it had dismissed the rider. This, she says, made her more afraid: \u201cI got him fired. Thanks to the delivery, he had my address.\u201d<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"21\"\/>After she posted about her experience on LinkedIn, many commenters asked her why she couldn\u2019t have ordered a vibrator from \u201ca safer place\u201d. <!-- -->Some suggested Amazon, which sends parcels in cartons. \u201cThat is not the point,\u201d she told TOI . <span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"25\"\/>\u201cThe point is if such products are available on a quick commerce website, it is the company\u2019s responsibility to protect the customer\u2019s privacy.\u201d<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"27\"\/>A former executive at a quick commerce platform said there is a separate protocol in place for handling sexual wellness, medicine, intimate care and reproductive health products. <!-- -->The apps mark them under the \u2018personal use items\u2019 category. These are then packed in a way to ensure the product is not visible to delivery personnel. TOI asked delivery drivers whether they are aware of what is in the bags they take to customers\u2019 homes.<!-- --> They said if a package is for \u2018personal use\u2019, it is wrapped to hide its contents.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"32\"\/>But evidently, it\u2019s different in practice. And riders who want to find out do. Noida resident Sweta (30) bought a pack of condoms from Zepto last month that arrived in the open. <!-- -->\u201cAlong with each grocery item, the delivery person handed me the condoms as well. He gave me a judgemental look. It was as if I was being put to shame for being sexually active,\u201d she says.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"36\"\/>Thane resident <a href=\"https:\/\/timesofindia.indiatimes.com\/topic\/divya\" styleobj=\"[object Object]\" class=\"\" commonstate=\"[object Object]\" frmappuse=\"1\">Divya<\/a> (40) said a Blinkit rider who came to her house a few months ago to deliver handcuffs, a vibrator and adult games for a bachelorette party seemed to have been surprised at the contents of his cargo, which came in a regular open bag. <!-- -->\u201cThe products were not wrapped. This much older gentleman asked me twice in disbelief, \u2018madam, is this your order?\u2019,\u201d she said. \u201cI just wanted to bury my head somewhere. This unknown person now had an opinion on my private life,\u201d she added.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"42\"\/>Koyel (28) said she once lied and sent back handcuffs and an intimate card game she had ordered on Swiggy Instamart because the delivery driver \u201chad such a strange look on his face\u201d.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"44\"\/>\u201cThe products were not wrapped. The thought that this man now knew what I did in private made me so uncomfortable,\u201d said the Chennai resident. <!-- -->\u201cI got so embarrassed I told him it was not my order.\u201d<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"48\"\/>The former quick commerce executive TOI spoke to said even though quick commerce platforms say they keep customer data confidential and ensure privacy by packaging sensitive items discreetly, ground reality depends on \u201ccompany culture, worker training and operational pressure\u201d.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"50\"\/>The quick delivery times promised and prioritised by these companies seem to be the root of this breach of protocol. <!-- -->Customer privacy is collateral damage.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"54\"\/>\u201cOnce the order flashes on the screen of a dark store, staffers have to pack the items in 2-4 minutes and keep them ready for the riders. In this hurry, they sometimes miss or skip the packaging protocol for \u2018personal use\u2019 products,\u201d the executive said.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"56\"\/>Blinkit, Zepto and Instamart did not respond to requests for a comment.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"58\"\/>This practice, in fact, has led to lawyers encountering a new kind of customer complaint. <!-- -->Sonam Chandwani, managing partner at KS Legal and Associates, told TOI , \u201cWhile complaints regarding defective products, delayed deliveries and refund disputes are common, we are also getting grievances where customers have felt embarrassed, exposed or humiliated because items of a highly personal nature were not packed in the discreet manner promised by the platform.<!-- -->\u201d<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"63\"\/>She added, \u201cThe legal significance of such complaints lies in the fact that privacy is no longer viewed as a mere expectation of courtesy. <!-- -->Following the recognition of privacy as a fundamental right by Supreme Court, businesses that collect, process and fulfil orders involving personal information are expected to act in a manner that respects the dignity and confidentiality of consumers.\u201d<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"67\"\/>Supreme Court lawyer Meera Kaura Patel said though there are no specific provisions in Consumer Protection Act about privacy, online platforms tell customers the nature of certain products will be redacted or concealed. <!-- -->\u201cIf, despite the promise of \u2018discreet\u2019 delivery, the goods are not properly sealed or their description is mentioned on the packaging, the same would run contrary to their own advertisement,\u201d she said.<!-- --> It could then be argued, according to Patel, that the companies are running misleading ads.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"72\"\/>\u201cRevealing intimate or sexual preferences to a third person\/delivery partner may also be qualified as disclosing sensitive personal information and could amount to an unfair trade practice,\u201d she said. Consumer rights lawyers TOI spoke to say if companies do not put customer protections in place, incidents like the one with Pooja are likely to keep happening.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"74\"\/><span class=\"em\" data-ua-type=\"1\" onclick=\"stpPgtnAndPrvntDefault(event)\">(Names of women who shared their experience have been changed on request)<\/span><\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/timesofindia.indiatimes.com\/city\/delhi\/delhi-shocker-delivery-executive-delivers-vibrator-tells-woman-why-this-use-me-instead\/articleshow\/131418528.cms\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Image Used For Representational Purpose Only NEW DELHI: When Aditi took the personal massager she had ordered out of the Blinkit bag, the package was unsealed. \u201cAs is the drill, I took photos and uploaded them to the app to request a return. 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